Sitting in the rec center reminds me of when I learned how to two-step. A friend of mine took me to Billy Bob's on my first Thursday night while I was at TCU. I had absolutely no idea what I was doing or how to dance. I wore flip flops to dance in, a definite faux pas in country western dancing. Although I clearly demonstrated my inability to dance or fit into the atmosphere at Billy Bob's, I did not leave discouraged but rather with a desire to learn more. I desired to learn how to dance, how to dress, and how to put on a country western facade. My friend offered to help me, and we would practice late at night in the rec center. He taught me how to dance, how to follow while another person is leading, and some line dances. The next time I went to Billy Bob's, I felt a little more at ease and more experienced. The more times I went, he and I would dance together, and gradually I got better and better.
"I want to learn to read better. One day I will get it." Marisol's words today reminded me of the times when I was learning how to dance. Rather than feeling discouraged, I Marisol is continually inspired and spurred on to learn more. Her ambition to practice and practice is inspiring. She realizes that this process is not quick and cannot be rushed. She doesn't get frustrated, but rather delights in the quest for knowledge because she knows that the result will be worth the wait.
Marisol and I continue to work on her pronunciation and ability to identify and read words. I can see the potential in Marisol. It is sometimes difficult for teachers because when you see the untapped potential in your students, you desire for them to "get it" right away because you know they can do it. Marisol will learn how to read and write on her own time when the time is right. My job is to encourage her time after time until the time is right.
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I like how you compared Marisol learning how to read to your learning how to dance at Billy Bob's. I was able to connect with that because when I came to TCU and went to Billy Bob's for the first time I felt just like you. I had to learn all those dances and after over a year I still struggle. Learning anything new takes time.
Hi Abby, Thanks for the post, which I thought was really perceptive. The analogy is excellent, and I like how you led up to it. Good writing, and thoughtful insight. Your work with Marisol is outstanding. Dan W.
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